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With Eyes Wide Open

The writing of a Thanksgiving prayer!

As the pastor, "The Reverend" in my family, I am often asked to pray at family and friends' gatherings. This year would be no different, I am sure... and as I was thinking about this and contemplating what and how to pray, I began to believe that some of you might be in the same position as I am, not because of your title but perhaps because you are the most "spiritual" or the one that is the most comfortable praying out loud in public… So you might benefit from some of these ideas.

Know you can NOT wing it. Writing a heartfelt prayer of thanksgiving is a beautiful way to express gratitude for the blessings in your life, especially because you are doing it on behalf of others. So here are a few things that might help you in this great opportunity.

Begin with a Greeting | Start your prayer by addressing God with a warm and familiar greeting or celebration. For example, you can say, "Dear Heavenly Father," "Oh, Gracious Creator," or simply, "Thank you, Lord."

Express Gratitude | Begin by acknowledging the things you are thankful for. Be specific and sincere in your expressions of gratitude. You don't have to cover everything; however, consider being precise. Consider what has brought you joy, comfort, or fulfillment—remembering that this isn't a personal prayer behind doors; you are tasked with leading the prayer on behalf of family and friends.

Precise elements to consider: Some family (For those who have been born and those who died but who will never be forgotten); also include health in the good and the bad, love (Weddings), friends, opportunities, and any other blessings that come to mind, but remember to be precise.

Reflect on the Past | Take a moment to reflect on the journey that has led you and those around you to this point. Consider the challenges you have all faced and how you have grown and learned from them. Express gratitude for the strength and wisdom you've gained through your experiences.

Offer Thanks for the Present | Express your appreciation for the present moment. Thank God for the abundance in life right now, whether it's the food on your table, the roof over your head, or the love and support of those around you.

Share Your Hopes and Desires | It's okay to share your hopes and desires for the future. Express your aspirations, dreams, and the things you're working towards. Ask for guidance and blessings to continue on your journey.

Request Forgiveness | If appropriate, ask for forgiveness for any shortcomings, mistakes, or transgressions- those I recommend keeping unspecific. Know that confession has a place and a time, and thanksgiving is not it. Express your desire to be a better person and seek the strength to overcome your challenges.

Close with Thankfulness | Conclude your prayer by expressing your continued gratitude and faith. For example, you can say something like, "I am forever thankful for your love and blessings," or "In your name, I give thanks for all that I have and all that I am."

Amen | Traditionally, prayers are closed with the word "Amen," which means "so be it." " Amen " signifies your affirmation of the prayer and your trust in the divine.

Remember that there is no right way to write a prayer of thanksgiving. Your prayer should come from the heart and reflect your relationship with your faith. Feel free to use the above structure as a guideline and customize it to make it your own. The most important aspect is to express your genuine gratitude and appreciation.

One final thing... if you dare... I personally like to pray "Thanksgiving prayers with eyes wide open." Recognizing each other's presence and love is the best way to celebrate!

I pray this helps; count it all joy.

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