It is not Rocket Science!
We sometimes forget the power of the words we speak or type in Social Media. Yet, our words have the ability to build or break relationships, encourage or discourage, and reflect what is truly in our hearts. As Christians, we are called to speak words that reflect Christ’s love, grace, and compassion—words that help us build deeper connections with those around us.
The words we speak have the power to heal, build, and transform relationships. As followers of Christ, we are called to use our words with intention, allowing them to reflect His love and grace. By saying "I love you," "thank you," "how can I support you" "I believe in you," and "I’m here for you," we not only strengthen our relationships but also help build the Kingdom of God here on Earth.
As we go about our day-to-day lives, let’s remember that our words matter. They are an opportunity to reflect God’s love, to encourage others, and to build community. Today, let’s speak these words with intention and watch how they transform both us and the world around us.
Here are five things I think those close to us need to hear from us...
"I love you."
The simplest, yet perhaps the most profound words, are "I love you." As believers, we know that love is the foundation of everything: "God is love" (1 John 4:8). N.T. Wright reminds us that “Love is the means by which God reaches us and the means by which we reach others.” Saying "I love you" not only strengthens the bonds between individuals but also reflects God’s eternal love for us. Whether to a spouse, friend, or even a stranger, expressing love is a daily reminder that we are made in God’s image, created to be in community with one another.
"Thank you."
Gratitude is a powerful tool for cultivating humility and a deeper awareness of God's presence in our lives. Saying "thank you" is an acknowledgment of the gifts—big and small—that others offer us. Miroslav Volf says, “Gratitude is the gateway to the recognition of the divine. It opens our eyes to the goodness that surrounds us.” When we say "thank you," we’re not just acknowledging someone's kindness; we are also recognizing that God works through others to bless us. Gratitude helps us focus on the goodness around us, reminding us that everything we have is a gift from God.
"How can I support you?"
Helping others is a vital part of the Christian calling. The question "How can I support you?" invites us to be present with those around us—whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Dietrich Bonhoeffer once wrote, “The Christian is the person who, regardless of personal need or self-interest, is willing to suffer for others.” When we ask how we can support, we’re offering more than just support; we’re living out the selfless love Christ showed us through His sacrifice. It’s an invitation to live a life of service, one that seeks to follow the example of Jesus and care for those around us.
"I believe in you." (This is a huge one for me personally)
Encouragement is vital for the growth and well-being of those in our lives. Saying "I believe in you" is an affirmation of someone’s potential, helping them believe in themselves too. Tim Keller often emphasizes the importance of encouragement within the community: “The church is a place where people should be known, loved, and encouraged to be their best selves in Christ.” When we say, "I believe in you," we’re doing more than just offering words—we’re expressing faith in the gifts God has placed in someone else. Encouragement, especially in the church, helps us step into our God-given roles and can lead to incredible transformations.
"I'm here for you." (This always requires a follow-up)
People can feel isolated and alone, and expressing solidarity with others can be a lifeline. Saying "I'm here for you" [then following up by showing up] provides comfort and security, offering people a sense of companionship in their struggles. Henri Nouwen observed, “Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer them a space where change can take place.” Sometimes, simply being present for someone can make all the difference. When we say, "I’m here for you," we offer not only our time but also our willingness to walk alongside others in their difficult moments, reflecting the love and presence of Christ, who promised to be with us always (Matthew 28:20).
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